What's wrong with me?
Nothing is wrong with you, BUT you may have some Love Blockers! You are perfectly created. However, we all have blocks that prevent us from being seen as, and feeling like the person we are deep inside, so we ask ourselves, "What's wrong with me (or more often said, "What's wrong with her")?" Why did I/or he say or do that? I call these Love Blockers! The key is to know the specific "Love Blockers" that are getting in the way. Awareness is the first step to the removal process. Personally, I need an excavator for mine some days! Do you want a testimony from my husband and children? Nah, I refuse to give them the pen, they love roasting me! Maybe another time! The other day I said (loudly), "Who ate all the Halo ice cream?" The family said "here we go"with a big eye roll,.... and they went on to roast me about how I would claim to have flown to Africa, climbed the Halo tree and personally scooped out the cream at the top, to get that Halo ice cream. It went on and on with roaring laughter. Apparently, I can be dramatic in the household when it come to mindlessly consuming the "special products" I went out of my way to get. Someone please take my side here! Does anyone else out there make a scene to get a point across to family (insert chuckle)! In other words, I think I'll be in charge of disclosing my own Love Blockers when necessary! Ha!
We are going to chip away at the Love Blockers that hold us back and steal our joy. Some will be light and fun while others may dig deep and perhaps even strike a little nerve. I believe, your perceptions will begin to change on how you see things, as mine has!
Here are a few of what I call the LOVE BLOCKERS: I will focus many future posts on these topics.
- Fear
- Anxiety
- Anger
- Mistrust
- Self Pity (victim)
- Low Self Esteem: (Presents itself as NEEDY or Egotistic)
- Jealousy
- Closed Minded
- Judgmental
- Lacking Courage
- Blaming Others
- Excessiveness
- Most Importantly, there will also be an emphasis on love, self care, mindfulness etc....
This is to name a few! These prevent us from connection with others and therefore, if we cant connect, we can't live up to our full purpose and live joyfully. Connection to others is the bridge to love and wholeness. When you walk over the bridge, you stay out of the deep water(despair)! If you can't connect with others, you miss out on what God has to offer. God shines through each of us uniquely. You alone, are only a cup of the ocean (as I have heard the late Wayne Dyer say), or as I say....one twig in the massive beautiful forest. The twig alone has little beauty. But when connected to the forest has endless beauty as part of a whole. Keep joining in the conversation and discover how to connect. How to become a part of the magnificent ocean or a part of the beautiful forest of life.
Recognize the LOVE BLOCKERS and walk the bridge to love, joy and peace.
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Consider yourself hugged,
Cindy Walter
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